WEEKLY EPISODES OF AFFIRMING TRUTHS

Are you struggling to renew your mind and walk in the Truth of who God made you to be? Do you feel like you are waging a losing battle against your negative self-talk? Are you fatigued from the daily grind of struggling against yourself, your thoughts or your circumstances? In the Affirming Truths podcast with Carla Arges, you will find a safe place to feel seen and heard, as well as Biblically based encouragement and practical tips from my own life experience.

My mission is to empower and equip you to ditch the negative self talk, grow in God and build mental resilience. Hey, I'm Carla Arges. Daughter of the King. Wife. Mom. Mental Health Warrior. Trauma Survivor. And Avid Coffee Drinker. I spent years broken by trauma and mental illness, barely surviving the day to day struggles of my own inner dialogue. I believed the lies of the past, the hurtful things spoken over me and my own self defeating thoughts.

But then something happened. I reclaimed my identity in Christ, figured out how to renew my mind and built the mental grit needed to leave my past self behind and walk in the beautiful purpose God has over my life. If you are ready to say YES to replacing your negative inner dialogue, walking a life of God’s truth and reclaiming who you are - I’m the coach and mentor for you. Get ready to live out Romans 12:2 - be transformed by the renewing of your mind and live in God’s good, pleasing and perfect will.

S6 EP10 | 7 Attributes that Make God the Perfect Father
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S6 EP10 | 7 Attributes that Make God the Perfect Father

Many of us have been left hurt, disappointed and disillusioned by our earthly fathers.

And that relationship makes it difficult for us to see and trust God as a good father. We just haven;t experienced that reality in our human relationships.

But the good news is that God is not a reflection of our fathers - he is the PERFECTION of our fathers.

In this episode, Carla shares 7 Key attributes that our earthly fathers may have failed at - but God perfectly embodies.

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S6 EP8 | Whom Shall I Fear? 4 Tips For Overcoming Fear
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S6 EP8 | Whom Shall I Fear? 4 Tips For Overcoming Fear

Fear is an emotion driven by our belief that someone or something is dangerous, a threat or likely to cause us harm. There are many healthy and necessary applications for fear that keep us alive.

BUT

The majority of fear that we live with is driven by a lack of trust in God being exactly who he says he is. And this type of fear stops us from living the fullness of life God desires for us. It stops us from doing the things God wants us to do - or stop doing.

In this episode, Carla shares 4 tips for overcoming fear and really learning to live an empowered life through the Holy Spirit.

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S6 Bonus 7 | When Life Isn’t What you Expected: 4 Steps To Moving On
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S6 Bonus 7 | When Life Isn’t What you Expected: 4 Steps To Moving On

Life certainly didn’t pan out as Carla imagined it would.

There was trauma, mental illness, homelessness, wounds and chaos. She could have never imagined that her life would turn out drastically different then her vision.  But as God got a hold of her pain - it turned out better.

Hear the 4 steps Carla took to go from living a life she didn’t expect as a BAD thing - to living a life she didn’t expect as a GOD thing.

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S6 EP7 | What Company Are You Keeping - Including On Social Media?
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S6 EP7 | What Company Are You Keeping - Including On Social Media?

They say you become like the 5 people you spend the most time with. I believe that’s true.  But I would add to it…

Show me the social media accounts you “creep” most - and I bet I can tell you what you struggle with - or how you are encouraged!

The Bible is full of warnings about the company you keep.  Is it time for you to do an audit?

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S6 Bonus 6 | Getting to The Root of Your Anger
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S6 Bonus 6 | Getting to The Root of Your Anger

Did you know Carla has a free group on Facebook to help support Christian women who struggle with their mental health? This past week, Carla was asked to talk about anger.

Anger is a feeling Carla is all too familiar with. It used to run her life. But did you know that anger can a) be a sign of a bigger mental health issue and b) is actually a cover for fear and sadness?

In today’s bonus episode Carla discusses how to find freedom from anger.

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S6 EP6 | 3 Steps to Grow Closer to God when You’re Suffering
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S6 EP6 | 3 Steps to Grow Closer to God when You’re Suffering

Carla knows first hand what it feels like to be far from God during periods of hardship.

But what she has discovered in her own life is that it is not God who leaves us, but us who isolate ourselves from God during our hard circumstances.

In this episode Carla shares the 3 steps she uses to grow close and stay close to God. God has promised to never leave us. It is his very nature to keep promises friend.

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S6 Bonus 5 | From Childhood Trauma, to Incarceration to Reclaiming Our Identity in Christ with Donna Sherrie
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S6 Bonus 5 | From Childhood Trauma, to Incarceration to Reclaiming Our Identity in Christ with Donna Sherrie

Join Carla as she talks to Donna - author of Untarnished, Reclaiming my Self Worth - as they talk about overcoming their past to be all that God created them to be.

Donna grew up with a challenging and traumatic childhood and found herself headed down the wrong path that eventually led her to being incarcerated on felony charges.

But God.

Hear how God has redeemed Donna’s story, helped her reclaim her self worth as daughter of the King and led her to helping others do the same. (trigger warning: mention of molestation) 

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S6 EP5 | Generational Patterns: 4 Steps to Becoming a Cycle Breaker
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S6 EP5 | Generational Patterns: 4 Steps to Becoming a Cycle Breaker

We are inclined to repeat negative, toxic generational patterns unless we make a conscious decision to become a cycle breaker.

It’s not easy. It takes owning our own behavior and tending to our need for healing.

But God is good. And he will restore what is broken and you journey in faith through these 4 steps Carla shares.

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S6 BONUS 3 | Flipping the Script in our Mind with Brittany Estes
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S6 BONUS 3 | Flipping the Script in our Mind with Brittany Estes

Join this conversation with Brittany Estes - speaker, coach and author of Flip The Script.

Our biggest battle field is in our mind. We listen to lies that leave us feeling broken, beaten down and overwhelmed. Brittany’s book calls us to flip the script - to take the lies captive and replace them with Biblical truth.

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S6 EP3 | The One Thing You Can Start Today To Help Deal With Anxiety
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S6 EP3 | The One Thing You Can Start Today To Help Deal With Anxiety

Learn how to work through anxious moments with Carla's ONE thing, a simple technique that can help reduce anxiety in the long term. This technique is part of Carla's 4 Pillars of Thriving, essential for overall well-being and particularly helpful for those struggling with mental health. Book a Discovery Call with Carla to start implementing the 4 Pillars in your life today.

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S6 Bonus 2 | Sometimes God DOES send the storm: Lessons from Jonah
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S6 Bonus 2 | Sometimes God DOES send the storm: Lessons from Jonah

In this week’s bonus episode, Carla shares an “aha” moment she’s had from her current Bibe study - looking at the book of Jonah.

We often are told that God doesn’t cause bad things to happen to his children.  And while it’s true that God doesn’t send evil - we learn from the book of Jonah that God will indeed send a storm - to save us from spiritual ruin.  You see, God is much more concerned with our spiritual health then momentary physical discomfort.

God pursues us in our disobedience and will, in his mercy, sometimes send storms to draw us back to his protection.

Can you discern what type of storm you are facing right now?

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S6 EP2 | 5 Things to Do When You Are Emotionally Overwhelmed
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S6 EP2 | 5 Things to Do When You Are Emotionally Overwhelmed

Do you often find yourself overwhelmed by your thoughts and feelings, leading to lashing out or mental paralysis? In this episode, join us as we delve into the experience of overwhelm and discover five valuable tips to effectively deal with it. Explore how to move beyond overwhelm and overcome its grip on your life. Find solace in the knowledge that God recognizes your overwhelm and offers an outstretched hand to help.

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S6 Bonus 1 | Shifting Perspectives: From Diet Culture to Stewardship. Interview With IHIWC Client Liz
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S6 Bonus 1 | Shifting Perspectives: From Diet Culture to Stewardship. Interview With IHIWC Client Liz

Carla is SO excited for this conversation! Join her as she sits down and talks to her client and friend Liz. Hear how God has spoken to Liz about changing her perspective on food, body image, wellness and what it means to take care of yourself.

Liz has been working with Carla through In His Image Wellness Collective - a group Carla runs to help women bring Christ-centered stewardship to their physical, mental, emotional and spiritual wellness.

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S6 EP1 | What Does The Resurrection Mean For Our Suffering? 3 Takeaways We Can Cling To
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S6 EP1 | What Does The Resurrection Mean For Our Suffering? 3 Takeaways We Can Cling To

Welcome to Season 6! We are going to talk about ALL the things this season to really support your mental and spiritual health! PLUS I am launching a NEW 1:1 Coaching program to help you implement my 4 Pillars of Thriving in YOUR life to help you overcome the overwhelm of anxiety, fear, and other mental health struggles.

But onto today’s episode!

What does the resurrection mean for our suffering? God has given us a framework for our suffering through the life of Jesus. Today I share 3 takeaways from the resurrection that we can cling to in our suffering.

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S5 EP11 | 4 Responses We Should Have in the Face of Our Sin
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S5 EP11 | 4 Responses We Should Have in the Face of Our Sin

We sin.  We fall short.  And on this side of heaven, we will continue to sin and fall short.

The enemy wants to use that truth to shame us and stop us from walking where God has called us. He wants to use our sin to isolate us from God.  Instead of letting the enemy gain leverage over us in our sin, Carla shares what our response to sin should be in 4 steps.

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S5 Bonus 10 | Divine Detours with Lori Ann Wood
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S5 Bonus 10 | Divine Detours with Lori Ann Wood

In this episode Carla sits down with award winning author Lori Ann Wood to talk about her new book - Divine Detours.

From an unexpected health crisis, Lori takes us through her journey on wrestling with God, working through doubt and ultimately finding a stronger faith.

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